Hi Tim,
I have taken your advice and decided to get a second oppinion on what steps to take next and also whether I am getting the best medical care from my Doctor, although I hope that I don't upset anyone in doing this. My sister is a Pharmasist and she kindly did some research and found a Leading Doctor who performs Liver resections through Laprascopic (keyhole) surgery - which I would prefer to be done on my left side. As mentioned previously I have a 4cm tumour on the left lobe of the liver and which is very close to my Stomach wall. The other two tumours are smaller - around 3cm on the right side of the liver which the Doctors are suggesting that these can be dealt with by Radio Frequency Ablasion. Anyway, I have to travel down to Southampton for second oppinion to see Dr Pearce who is beleived to be one of the best Liver resection specialist who performs most of his operations via keyhole for a consultation and to see whether I am doing the right thing, perhaps he may suggest that he will perform this operation, but I don't know yet. My worry would be that if I had my op down in Southampton - (which is around 4/5 hours away from where I live) and if I had any complications after the operation - what would happen then, would my local hospital know what to do?, or would I need to get help from nearest liver unit?? My main worry is what if I knock myself and I stated to bleed internally (Liver Hemmorage). I also suffer from Sleep Apnia and I worry over whether this will effect me going under the anesthetic and whether I will come round. Sounds crazy I know, but Cannot help thinking of negatives sometimes, although having read most of your section of the book and various other people's situations on this site - has helped me a great deal and I am more POSITIVE than before. I am glad to have met some really nice people on this site. I think the second oppinion will make up my mind and I will be more assured that I am undertaking the correct procedure and also an oppinion on the Doctor performing the operation too. Anyway, I hope you are very well Tim and I will take your advice and check out Janet Hickey's book if I can obtain a copy. Thanks for keeping in touch, its reassuring to know that we are not alone in this situation and people like you make a massive difference to us all - hence the Book you have written and the help and advice you have given to many in this Forum. One of these day's I will personally come over and thank you - in person, hopefully that time won't be far away I hope. Takecare for now. Paresh. PS My trip to Southampton is on Monday 9th August 2010. I will keep you posted of how I got on okay. Thanks |